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How to Ask Your Body What It Actually Needs

21.07.2026
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In this episode, somatic practitioner Dolly Josette (aka The Pleasure Muse) is teaching us something that changed my life… how to actually listen to what our bodies are trying to tell us. We walk through a body anchor meditation to help you find your most grounded position, then move into what Dolly calls the vulva hug and cock cradle, a practice that has nothing to do with arousal and everything to do with presence, safety, and building trust with your own body. If you've ever felt disconnected from your body, gone numb during sex, or struggled to know what you actually want, this episode is your foundation. Somatic work like this is how we learn to stop performing and start truly feeling, and it's a practice you can bring into your life daily, not just in the bedroom!

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 

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Chapters:

Welcome to Sex with Emily

Meet Dolly Josette & What Is Somatic Work?

Embodiment & Sexual Connection

The Holy Trinity: Body, Mind & Soul

Body Anchor Meditation

The Vulva Hug & Cradle Practices

How This Practice Changes Intimacy

Overcoming Shame Around Your Body

How Somatic Work Changes Relationships

The Power of the Pause

Why Daily Embodiment Matter

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